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Cambodian Women Are Great
When people realize that Cambodia’s
population consists mostly of women,
they oftensmile. After all, it is
great to know that this unique country is full of
beautiful Asian women. In fact, there are at least 2
million people living in households that are run by
women alone. This is an empowering thought to women
everywhere.
In addition to women running households,
they also are
responsible for the farming population for the most
part. Cambodian women are strong physically and
mentally. They often take on the responsibilities of the
farm and the household. They know how to manage
livestock and the fisheries as well.
These physical
traits are quite attractive to many people of the world,
especially farmers in search of a good wife.
The truth is that
Cambodia women have to rely on their physical
labor because they often are not well educated.
In fact, the literacy rate for women in Cambodia
is about 20% less
than what the literacy rate
for men is in Cambodia. This can be quite
alarming for many people outside the country.
But instead of choosing to live in poverty,
Cambodian women
get out there and work for their
pay. They don’t often get credit for their hard
work, but they do contribute to the household
greatly. So, if someone asked what the most
attractive thing about Cambodia’s women was,
besides beauty of course, it would have to be
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They
help provide for their family and at least 20%
of the women of Cambodia are alone in the task.
Author Pauline Go
 
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Media
Activism in Cambodia: An Interview with Tive Sarayeth of
the Women's Media Center
Off Our Backs
On February
13, 2006, off our backs collective member Angie Manzano
visited the Women's Media Center of Cambodia (WMC) in
Phnom Penh. WMC is a public broadcasting organization
founded by Cambodian women activists in 1993. While
there, she met with Tive Sarayeth, codirector of the
Networking Department of the Women's Media Center of
Cambodia (www.wmccambodia.org), who talked about the
history, mission, and values of the WMC.
Can you tell me how the WMC got started?
Well, in 1993, there was a group called Cambodian Women
for Non-Violence in Elections. The purpose of this group
was to increase women's participation in the upcoming
United Nations-sponsored elections. After the elections
were over, five of the women involved in this group
decided they wanted to keep working on women's issues.
These women were the founders of the WMC.
How many people work with WMC today?
We have 60 people on staff, all Cambodian. Before we
used to have only women on staff. Now there are men on
staff, but we still have a majority of women. When we
recruit staff, we focus on women. We want to have as
many women involved as possible. We also have many
volunteers.
What kind of media work do you do?
We work in three main areas: Radio, video and
networking. When we started, the radio station didn't
have a very strong antenna. In 2001 we got funding from
UNESCO to buy a new antenna, which is 10KW. We now
broadcast 16 hours a day, and we reach about 60% of the
population of Cambodia. We produce radio programs about
women and youth. We have both news and entertainment. We
encourage all women to come and talk about whatever on
the air. They can even call in if they can't come in. We
also encourage women to write and we help them get
published in the Cambodian newspapers.
Networking is what I personally work on. I work to
advocate women in the media. We also cooperate with
women's and human rights organizations. Usually, the
people involved in these groups are specialists in their
issue, but they don't have the technical media skills.
We have those skills. We know how to produce TV and
radio shows. We know how to do interviews, roundtable
discussions, and so forth. If they want to do a radio
show, we will give them one hour of free time. We also
have scholarships for women to study at WMC. This is
important because it is hard to find Cambodian women
with media skills. One of our greatest challenges is the
lack of qualified staff.
Can you tell me about the Cambodia video you
produce?
Yes, well we don't have a TV station, so we broadcast on
other stations. But we also want to reach people in the
remote villages who have no electricity and no access to
media. We have a mobile unit, which consists of a TV,
VCR and power generator. We move it to different
villages to screen all kinds of shows-comedy, drama,
news, sports, interviews. People say they like the
comedy and drama shows the best.
What other kind of feedback have you received
from the people In the villages?
They say, "Use simple words." Also when there are words
on the screen, they say that we should have a
voice-over. This is because many of the people in the
villages can't read. They also say they don't want
productions about rich people. Once we had a story about
a general who had HTV, and the people in the village
said, "This is not about us. Rich people live in villas,
have lots of cars, lots of girls." They prefer stories
about people like themselves. We get a lot of feedback
from women who say they want us to do programs on
domestic violence and trafficking in women. When we show
programs on domestic violence, usually someone will say,
"This is the story of the woman who lives near my house!
How did you know what happened to her?" One more thing:
They say that the programs should be at least two hours
long. If we have programs that are shorter than two
hours people won't come. That's because many people have
to walk at least 2 kilometers to get to the show, and
they aren't going to walk that far for a show that's
only one hour long.
Are there some people who are offended by the
programs-the fact that they deal with Issues like
violence against women?
What we do is different because we have a gender
perspective. Some men are not happy about this and won't
watch. They say it is an "old issue." They are afraid
that women will take their power. This is not only the
poor, but the rich as well! The reality of Cambodian
life and tradition is that the husband is powerful. He
has the right to make decisions without discussing them
with his wife. He has the right to order the kids and
beat the wife.
One time we showed a program in a village and everyone
came.
Then the next time, two of the families didn't
come, because the husbands would not allow their wives
to watch. They were ashamed because of our message. Our
message is from a different angle. We say no one has a
right to beat you, even if it is your husband. But after
seeing the show, some of the men change. I know two of
the men stopped beating their wives. It's not perfect,
because they went from beating their wives to blaming
them, but it is better.
You said that many women relate to the stories of
domestic violence. Is It common for women In the
villages talk to you about their experiences after
watching one of the programs?
Many times women come up to us and say,
"Where can I go?
Who can I contact? My husband has been beating me
everyday for 10 years." But when they contact the
courts, the village leaders, the police, they won't do
anything to help. We put them in touch with people who
can help. We know a lot of people and organizations that
can help them. Like the Cambodian Women's Crisis Center
(CWCC). They assist women who are exploited, raped,
trafficked, beaten. They run a shelter and can also help
women learn skills. There is also the human rights group
Lichado, which can help women going to court. But there
is a problem: Some women complain when their husband
beats them. Later on, when it is okay with their
husband, they withdraw the complaint.
What other subjects do the Cambodia video
programs address?
The main issues for women in Cambodia-trafficking in
women, rape, HIV. Many women get HIV from their
husbands, and then they pass it on to their children. As
far as trafficking, what happens is that girls in the
remote areas are cheated and sold to brothels in
Malaysia, Thailand, Philippines, Taiwan. Sometimes it
happens through their boyfriends and sometimes the
parents sell the girls. They tell the girls that they
are taking them to find a job in the city, but it's not
true.
And rape happens everyday; father rapes daughter,
neighbor rapes a girl. Due to Khmer habits, parents are
ashamed when their daughter is raped. They don't want it
to be heard. Sometimes they will arrange for their
daughter to marry the rapist, or pay him money to keep
quiet. Many times they can't go to court because they
can't afford it. They also have to have a medical check
within 24 hours, or else the court will say that there
is no evidence. You have to pay for the examination too!
If a girl lives in a remote area she often has no money
to travel to get the exam or pay for the investigation.
Some girls don't know they have to get the exam within
24 hours, so it is too late if they do go in for an
exam. So we produce materials that explain to girls what
they should do and who to contact if they are raped. We
encourage parents not to pay the rapists, because then
they know that they can keep doing it to other girls.
There are many other issues, like health. I know a woman
who was making between $50-$70 U.S. dollars a month
working with the government. But she had to work 12 to
14 hours a day to make that kind of money. She worked
too much so she was always sick. All the money she made
she had to spend on medical treatment. This is something
that happens a lot near the Thai border: If you buy food
it costs 5000 riels [approx. $1.25]. If you buy drugs,
it costs 500 riels [approx. 12 cents]. If you buy the
drugs, it is cheaper and it makes you not hungry, but it
can make you lose control. Men who take drugs often lose
control and beat their wives.
Do you think that the WMC media programs are having a
lasting Impact on the lives of Cambodlan women?
The changes that I have seen are that women are starting
to talk, to seek assistance, to work on women's issues
and to escape from their husbands. The fact that women
can speak openly is a big change!
Author Manzano, Angie
Cambodia – The Happiest Country in Asia
Given the recent history of Cambodia, you might
wonder why I refer to it as the happiest place on earth.
Well, there is a real reason if you understand what
happy means in Cambodian slang.
Cambodia is located in Southeast Asia. It is bordered by
Thailand to the west, Laos to the north and Vietnam to
the east. As you may know, some very nasty things
happened in Cambodia in the 1970s and 1980s. During this
period, Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge ruled the country or
were fighting to do so.
Reign of terror is a phrase often over used, but not
when it comes to the Khmer Rouge. The group implemented
what can only be called bizarre policies and managed to
starve and murder roughly twenty percent of the total
population of Cambodia. The reign of terror was
eventually ended when the Vietnamese invaded and pushed
the Khmer into a small, isolated pocket of land in the
far north.
A few years back, I had the urge to travel. I get it
every two or three years. I get it bad. I usually sell
off whatever I have and travel for as long as I can. In
this case, I flew into Thailand because I didn’t have a
lot of money and the flight from Los Angeles was cheap,
cheap, cheap! Thailand was pretty touristy, so off to
the wilds of Cambodia I went.
To be honest, Cambodia is not as wild a place as you
might think given its recent history. These are some
seriously strong people from a mental perspective. If
you walk around the major city, Phnom Phen, it looks
like nothing happened. In fact, you keep seeing signs
for happy this and happy that just about everywhere. I
am not kidding. The signs literally say “happy dinner”,
“happy pizza” and so on. Gee, these people are happy.
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As you might imagine, happy has a particular connotation
in Cambodia.
Do I even need to tell you? Yep, it refers to that funny
tobacco that so many in the hippie generation liked to
enjoy. Simply put, the Cambodians mix marijuana with
just about any type of food stuff – pizza, cake, shakes,
tacos. It is used like a spice, to wit, it isn’t obvious
it is in the food. If you don’t know what happy means,
you can be in for a BIG surprise an hour or so after
eating! It was not uncommon to see tourists giggling and
staggering around the sidewalks.
At the end of the day, I found Cambodia to be a great
place to enjoy notwithstanding its past and the happy
food. Angkar Wat and the surrounding Khmer
structures are stunning and definitely should be on your
list of things to see. So go ahead and take off to
Cambodia, but make a mental note regarding the happy
food!
Author
Rick Chapo is with Nomad Journals - makers
of journals that are great
travel gifts.
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